Honestly speaking, I wouldn’t know the first thing. I’ve been duped enough times to call myself a “nincompoop” every time i made a self talk. I’d have been seriously damaged if i didnt commit myself to being better than what i was. Truly, it is one of the few things that make me the sarcastic and bitter loner i am. Which i mean as a self-compliment. Bitterness is the flavour of life if life is spent learning, sarcasm is the fun one has in despair and desolation and a loner is but a person who chooses his company with extreme and brutal prejudice. I am intensly commited to be wiser.
So should you be. Biblical quotations aside, wisdom is the one thing that differentiates between occassional lucky winners and dominating badasses. Does it feel badass when you know you have been duped? If not, Consider the words of wisdom from the land of 1001 stories.
Think about it, where have the most rampant lies that have ever hurt you originated? Gossip? Scams? vicious rumours? Propagandas? Have you noticed sometimes how the worst of all bad things happen because someone somewehere misunderstood the good things? The things we should consider when speaking, can they also not be reversed and considered while listening?
Lets see if you can understand this the easy way. Whatever you recieve, ask yourself:-
Question 1. What is the moral of the storyteller?
When you identify the purpose and the core message behind the story, you can easily spot someone trying to coax you into their own way of thinking using fear or hate. Meaningful and ancient stories could also be dogma or indoctrination. Do not accept anything as absolute truth when it polarises one side as allies and others as enemies. It is an old psychological ploy to prep soldiers for war. It is indoctrination for fear and hate.
Question 2. Is this literal or metaphoric?
It is one of those things that make me laugh like a cliche Dark lord when among my friends. This perhaps because i’m too proud of my attention to detail in everything, or just because i enjoy the frustrated faces of my friends when the answer was just “under their nose.” Grand legends and history can always be metaphorical. Wisdom of a metaphor can make you grow as a person. Being stunted by apparent meanings will not.
Question 3. Do you feel it’s depth and truthfulness?
When I speak with anger and cruelty and call you a “lazy slob who wastes all their life slaving to a screen,” would you not feel angry and hurt? But if you set aside the offence and try to understand my intention, even in my anger. You will notice that i say what i say so you can get your physical vehichle in motion. You might feel happier and forget your early bitterness. Do you feel it now when you consider the harsh words of your parents, teachers, coaches and friends. You understand quickly who wishes the best for you.
Reverse the situation, consider the words friendliness, care and understanding when someone asks you to try hard drugs so you can forget your problems. Someone filled with compassion when they sell you something that can make your life much easier. Face value is never the only value my friends. Go deeper, understand more. Truth is not a subject of the head, it is a matter of the heart. You’ll feel it. Even though things may not be as simple.
Question 4. Who said it?
Would you buy the most genuine and cheap credit cards from a guy in a dark alley? It is actually so basic in understanding that one may laugh when someone else forgets to notice it. Yet so many are victims to this little ploy all the time. Why would a Palestine born not have hate stories against israel? Why would islamic extremists count all the times where other religions and communities have been kind and tolerant to them? Why would a cosmetics company tell you that you can be healthy and beautiful just while you use all natural remedies? Do you see it.
People speak what they speak not only because what they speak they believe to be true, also they want all others to believe it. It’s hard to argue with that once you consider all the times you spoke in a lengthy conversation. It is often inarguable that often people already duped, dupe you as well. It’s how rumours and mass hysteria exists. It is the first foundation to propaganda and often terrorism. Understand this and you will know to remember the speaker’s motive behind any story or opinion hence shared.
So here it is. The answer to all your problems is awareness. Be attentive, ask questions, be compassionate, understanding. In essense be wise. What you believe is your responsibility. Ignore it and anyone can have power over you, respect and heed it and you are the power that can shape your own life.
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